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A devoted group of Cornerstone Striders out for a Dismal Swamp run in January, 2013 |
This month I will mark two years running with the Cornerstone Striders in Suffolk. I wanted to take a little time to talk about how this group changed everything for me when it comes to running.
In December, 2011, I had been running only about three months, having started as part of my quest to drop the massive amount of weight I had accumulated by age 49. I had reached a point where I was dismayed by the way I felt, looked and where I was physically, on the cusp of turning 50. I had made myself a promise that my gift to myself for my 50th birthday would be a new, healthier me but I had a long way to go. By September, 2011, I had already dropped about 80 pounds, but still had 50 to go and my doctor had cleared me to run.
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Running with Cornerstone in Carrollton |
For the first three months of running, I started slowly. On my first runs, I was barely able to run a quarter mile without stopping. I worked myself up to running the entire length of my 5-mile walking route. Running was doing great things, but I was running alone. At a Christmas party, I chanced upon another friend, who knew I had been running and asked if I had heard about a new running group that had formed in Suffolk. I told her I had not, but got the details. I woke up the next morning to run and looked up Cornerstone. As it turned out, they had a group run that morning at Hillpoint. I thought, "what the heck, I'll show up and, if I hate it, I won't go back."
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Andrea started the Cornerstone Striders after moving down from Michigan with her family. The group now boasts a membership of over 100 runners |
Well, I showed up for that Sunday morning run two years ago and I have not looked back (figuratively, of course). Running with a group, and this group, in particular, has made all the difference. Along the way, I have met some of the most motivated people I have ever known (thanks Andrea!). I have also achieved goals I never dreamed possible, like running my first half and then full marathons at age 50. I have shared the experience of running a 200-mile relay across Virginia and completed my first triathlon. I am now training for my first ultra marathon. I am convinced that much, if not all, of these things may never have happened or, if they did, would have happened much more slowly without Cornerstone.
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Cornerstone travelled to Richmond for the Monument Avenue 10K |
In the end, I would say, that running with a group has motivated me to be a better and more accomplished runner. I hope that I can pass that inspiration on to other new runners. Sometimes a group makes all the difference.
Our Cornerstone Century team completed the Colonial 200 Relay running over 200 miles across Virginia |
Steve, I didn't know your background (the amazing transformation) until your Cornerstone buddy Jeff filled me in when I joined you all in FLSP… I got goosebumps! What a fantastic story, and so motivating! I couldn't agree more about the "teamwork" approach to running… when I started I completely believed it was a solo sport. It wasn't until I had my first running buddy that I realized there's power in numbers. When she moved away I was devastated. This past year I couldn't have made the crazy goals I had for myself without my beasty partner. He literally carried me to an ironman. It's definitely a lot more fun to share your growth in the sport, and get encouragement from those who understand! The 50K is going to be a great experience!
ReplyDeleteThanks Heidi! It's so funny how a chance conversation at a Christmas party changed my life. I will run solo if I have to, but so much prefer to run with someone or with a group. My Cornerstone friends have helped me to improve my running and I want to have that same positive influence on other new runners. I think that is what makes the running community so great, we all love it and want others to embrace it. Keep doing all the great things you do! You are a great role model.
ReplyDeleteAwesome post, Steve! Our crew is better for having you as a part of it. I am honored to call you my friend and I am so glad you took a chance and a leap of faith and joined us that day two years ago. I can only imagine what is in store for us in the next two years!
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